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 I've read a lot of personal finance


books but none goes into how we think


and behave around money better than this


book the psychology of money by Morgan


housel .

So in today's article let me share


with you the 18 wealth lessons from this


amazing Book lesson number one recognize


that when it comes to our money no one


is crazy we easily judge people based on


their worldview or where they decide to


invest their money we judge someone who


is putting all their money into gold as


someone who is still living in the 16th


century we judge someone putting all


their money in nfts as someone living in


a fantasy world and we judge someone


putting all their money in vtsax as


someone void of a personality however


every decision people make with money is


justified by taking the information they


have at the moment and plugging it into


their unique mental model or how the


world works both my parents were born


during the Korean War and they spent


most of their adult lives in a war-torn


country that was trying to rebuild


theirself so they have a certain


worldview based on their experience food


isn't something you throw away because


you never know where your next meal will


come from you work when you can and then


whatever job is available because


freedom to choose your work is a fantasy


and the stock market sounds like a scam


because frankly where they grew up the


stock market didn't exist so let's be


careful before we judge I might think


investing all my money in a low-cost


broad market index fund is safe but


someone else might see that as being


crazy we all make decisions based on our


own unique experiences and world view


let's first seek to listen and


understand before we jump to judgment


number two wealth lesson understand luck


and risk when it comes to wealth


building whereas I like to think we have


no idea how luck and risk will play into


building our future the line between


inspiringly bold and foolishly Reckless


can be a millimeter thick and only


visible with hindsight we live in a


world of extremes we praise Mark


Zuckerberg for having turned on Yahoo's


2006 one billion dollar offer to buy his


company what a genius he saw the future


and took bold risks that ultimately paid


out however in the same sentence we


criticized Yahoo for having turned down


a big buyout offer from Microsoft what a


bunch of fools didn't they know what a


great deal Microsoft was offering but


the truth is that we honestly don't know


depending on how Facebook and Yahoo's


future Panda are opinions their approach


to these by out offers could be


completely different we can never know


what is luck and what is skill so


therefore take a conservative approach


with money arrange your financial life


in a way so that not one bad investment


or a misfinancial goal can wipe you out


hold a good amount of reserving cash


diversify your investment and keep your


household expenses low number three


wealth lesson recognize the power of


enough or better yet the danger of not


knowing are enough when it comes to


Growing our net worth we tend to


attribute high value to technical


knowledge such as investing tax planning


and financial forecasting however the


hardest Financial skill is getting the


goal post to stop moving is so human


nature I was so happy with my brand new


Civic that is until I saw my neighbor


drive up in a brand new Tesla I was


overjoyed by my 2000 year-end bonus that


is until I found out my colleague


received a three thousand dollar bonus


when you have no sense of your enough


you will spend your life constantly


chasing a moving goal post a life never


fulfilled because the ceiling of social


comparison is assuming that no one will


ever hit so identify you enough by


knowing what is most important to you


not what is important for your neighbor


or your co-worker identify what level


wealth is enough for you and stick to


that number number four wealth lesson


recognize the ridiculous power of


compounding Albert Einstein said it best


compound interest is the most powerful


force in the universe Warren Buffett's


net worth is well over 100 billion


dollars at the time of this article.


however what many people have a hard


time comprehending is the fact that 99


of Warren Buffett's net worth was earned


after his 50th birthday in 1986 when he


was 56 years old Warren Buffett became a


billionaire Warren Buffett by any major


comparison is a phenomenal investor


however it wouldn't do justice to


compound interest if we attributed all


his success to his stock picking


abilities alone because the real Secret


Sauce to his success is actually time


the fact that he's been a great investor


for three quarters of a century the main


takeaway is this don't try to find


winning stocks good investing isn't all


about earning the highest returns


because High returns most often can be


attributed to luck as we mentioned


earlier it's hard to tell if it's based


on someone's phenomenal skill or if


they're just lucky so aim to earn okay


returns for a long period of time


leverage the most powerful force in the


universe compound interest to your


benefit number five wealth lesson


recognize that there is a clear


distinction between getting rich and


staying Rich it's easy to bucket the


skills required to making money and


keeping that money as the same skills


however they're completely different


Mike Tyson was excellent at making money


at the peak of his career Mike Tyson


could command 30 million payout for each


of his fight however due to his lavish


lifestyle he filed for bankruptcy in


2003 with 27 million dollars in debt as


good as Mike Tyson was in the boxing


ring and then making ridiculous amount


of money he really sucked at keeping his


money Tyson once built a mega mansion in


the dreams in Connecticut and an iconic


feature of this home was a 2.2 million


dollar bathtub made of pure gold he also


once owned three Bengal tigers named


Kenya storm and Boris spending two


hundred thousand dollars in annual food


budget alone making money takes risks


risks such as trusting the stock market


to grow our net worth however keeping


our money requires the opposite of


taking risks humility and fear that what


we've made can be taken away from us in


a blink of an eye number six wealth


lesson understand the tale follow the


average what do we mean by the tale


we're referring to the furthest end of a


distribution curve it's easy to assume


that all events have an equal impact


upon the market and the economy however


the reality is that all impacts aren't


distributed equally most often a small


number of events account for the


majority of the outcome take a look at


the stock market when we see the amazing


growth of the market over the past 50 or


100 years we might think that all the


companies contributed equally to its


growth however when we look deeper most


of the companies in the index were


effectively failures most recently


companies like apple and Amazon were


what's true of the S P 500 or the total


stock market to its positive returns


everyone else losers the key takeaway


here is not to say that we should


actually try to identify these Tales


because that is impossible to do


especially for average investors like


uni rather the point of tales highlights


the importance of following the average


a good definition of an investing genius


is the man or woman who can do the


average things when all those around


them are going crazy Tales Drive


everything number seven wealth lesson


and this is my personal favorite and


that is to recognize that of all the


things that you can buy with money time


and therefore freedom is the greatest


purchase the highest form of wealth is


the ability to wake up every morning and


say I can do whatever I want today for


me this is very personal because I spent


a good 20 years of my professional life


in some form of institution whether in


the military a school or company at the


time it was hard to wrap my head around


the value of ultimate freedom because


I've never truly experienced it but


studies and my personal experience has


made me a Believer happiness is a


complicated subject because everyone's


different but if there's a common


denominator in happiness a universal


fuel of Joy it's that people want to


control their lives if you have the


means to buy back time buy back Freedom


even if it's a small sliver of complete


Freedom it'll provide you the best


return for your money number eight while


fussing very straightforward no one is


impressed by your car when you see


someone driving a nice car you rarely


think wow the guy driving the car is


cool instead you think wow if I had that


car people would think I'm cool


subconscious or not this is how people


think so if you like nice cars try one


because you want to not to impress


someone else number nine wealth lesson


real wealth is most often hidden we


naturally judge people's wealth by oec


because that's all the information we


have to go off on they aren't going to


show us their bank account or investment


Holdings so we can only make inferences


based on outward appearances how fancy


is their car how big is their home how


lavish was their last overseas vacation


however this is the worst way to truly


gauge someone's wealth modern capitalism


makes helping people fake it until they


make it a cherished industry the honest


truth is that any one of us with a


decent credit score can look rich if we


wanted to we can finance a new


Lamborghini we can take out a two


million dollar mortgage for a mansion


and we can put that fancy trip to Greece


on a credit card but true wealth is


actually what we don't see because


wealth is actually built when we don't


spend the money not buying that nice car


or the large Mansion or taking that


overpriced first-class flight so next


time you see someone with a lot of nice


rich things don't be impressed the world


is filled with people who may look poor


but actually wealthy and people who look


rich but are actually living on borrowed


credit number 10 wealth lesson if you


want to Achieve Financial Independence


you must learn to save money this is


more important than your investment


returns your income or your ridiculous


good looks wealth is just accumulated


leftovers after you spend what you take


in and since you can build wealth


without a high income but you have no


chance of Building Wealth without a high


savings rate it's clear which one


matters more when it comes to money we


get so enamored with the sexiest tools


investment vehicles and get rich schemes


but Building Wealth is very simple spend


less than you earn and save money so


care less about what others think of you


lower your ego save more and build real


wealth number 11 wealth lesson when it


comes to managing your money don't try


to be a perfectly rational spreadsheet


just be reasonable enough reasonable is


more realistic and you have a better


chance of sticking with it for the long


run which is what matters when managing


your money when we think of money and


numbers we automatically think we need


to become a spreadsheet meticulously


calculating the pros and cons of every


purchase dilemma and arriving at the


most ideal decision however we're humans


not computers to set the expectation


that we should behave like one is just


setting ourselves up for failure so


accept reasonable accept our social


beings so we don't need to aim for


spreadsheet level Perfection with every


financial decision if you can do


reasonable enough consistently over a


long period of time you will win with


money number 12 wealth lesson recognize


that the world is surprising we often


use history to predict the future but


the biggest lesson that history should


teach us is that the future is not


predictable we have no idea what will


happen next it is smart to have a deep


appreciation for economic and investing


history history helps us to calibrate


our expectations study where people tend


to go wrong and offers a Rough Guide for


what tends to work but it is not in any


way a map of the future history is good


for General takeaways General


understanding of greed and fear how


people behave under stress and how


people respond to incentives but be wary


when someone tries to use specific


historical Trends Industries or Market


movements to explain what is happening


today the economic and political


landscape of yesterday is completely


different from today and it will be even


more so tomorrow take the general


lessons but be wary whenever someone


gets too specific number 13 wealth


lesson always make room for error a


margin of safety or a buffer room no


plan will ever go according to the


original plan in World War II's Battle


of Stalingrad the largest battle in the


world history there was a point in the


battle where the desperately needed


German tanks failed to function properly


where they wore now from all the


fighting were they too damaged from the


last engagement no it was actually the


mice few of the mice that had nested


inside the tanks had eaten away all the


insulation covering the electrical


system making them inoperable the


Germans went into battle with one of the


most sophisticated equipment in the


world at the time yet they were defeated


by something no one could have ever


expected mice the honest truth is that


despite how ridiculous such stories


sound things like this happen all the


time so the good rule of thumb is to


expect the unexpected and always make


room for error when it comes to my


finances my favorite margin of safety is


to hold cash at least three to six


months in an easily accessible checking


or savings account I personally favor 12


months Bill Gates said this when


Microsoft was a young company I wanted


to have enough money in the bank to pay


a Year's worth of payroll even if we


didn't get any payments coming in even


at the early stage of the company Bill


Gates knew he needed a margin of safety


to make his dream come true number 14


wealth lesson or actually this is more


of a life lesson recognize that you will


change or as I like to say You must


change this reminds me of what a


marriage counselor once said a couple in


their 40s went into a therapy session


and the wife was complaining to the


counselor how her husband was no longer


the same man she married 20 years ago


the fire was gone it was a lot more


reserved now not as spontaneous as when


they first started dating do you know


what the marriage counselor said well


good I really hope he's not the same guy


you married 20 years ago do you still


want to be married to a 20 year old


college student when it comes to


planning our financial future we


oftentimes approach it with the


Precision that we'll know exactly what


our future selves will want but the


truth is that we will change we have to


change I may be completely okay wearing


the same shirt right now but who knows


when I'm 15. I might have a fashion


Eureka moment and might want a bigger


closed budget therefore we should avoid


the extreme ends of financial planning


assuming you'll be happy with the very


low income or choosing to work endless


hours in pursuit of high one increases


the odds that you'll one day find


yourself at a point of regret number 50


Teen Wolf lesson recognize that when it


comes to investment returns even the


ones that follow the market nothing is


free I advocate heavily for Index Fund


investing a simple low-cost and most


effective for average investors like you


and I so it's easy to assume that there


is no cost to this way of investing


however there is it may not be in


dollars and cents but in motion markets


don't move in the way we want it spikes


up and spikes down at a moment's notice


you watch the stock market long enough


you'll go through all stages of emotion


Joy fear excitement doubt and regret you


name it you'll experience them all this


is because even if you have Steel in


your blood veins very few investors have


the ability to say I'm actually fine if


I lose 20 of my money this is even more


true for new investors who have never


experienced a 20 or even a 10 decline


ever before but except that this is the


price we have to pay if we want to reap


the benefit of investing in the market


and build wealth in the long run if we


can accept that market volatility is the


fee we have to pay to invest in the


market we can stick around long enough


for investing games to really work for


us number 16 wealth lesson I identify


what specific money game you're playing


it's easy to assume that when we're


talking about money and Building Wealth


we're all pursuing the same goal playing


the same game ultimately to get rich


however when we unpeel the layers what


we'll often find is that there is a


great deal of variability to what Rich


looks like for each person for one


person it may be having a comfortable


middle class retirement when they turn


60. for another person it might mean


being able to live in a 16 room mansion


and fly in a private jet every weekend


therefore the money strategy or the


money game that each individual is


playing is and has to be completely


different the 60 year old retiree will


be fine saving 20 percent of their


income in a low-cost Index Fund however


the aspiring private jet passenger must


take greater risks either starting their


own business or investing in very risky


assets so be worth taking Financial cues


from people playing a different game


than you are understand what money game


you want to play and adhere to advice


from individuals that are in the same


game as you number 17 wealth lesson


Embrace optimism people naturally


gravitate towards pessimism it's more


captivating and frankly more plausible


tell some one that everything will be


great and they're likely to either shrug


you off or offer a skeptical eye however


tell someone that they're in danger and


you have their undivided attention what


do you think we have so many Doom and


Gloom news and content out there no news


coverage is about how good times are


ahead rather they're all about how we're


at the brink of a new Great Depression


or another worldwide Financial


catastrophe but optimism is what will


enable us to take Smart Financial risks


and build wealth if we believed


everything in the news and truly believe


that the world was going to end tomorrow


there's no way we would put a penny into


the stock market but the fact is that


the stock market has gone up 17 000


fools in the last century it's easier to


create a narrative around pessimism


because the story pieces tend to be


fresher and more recent optimistic


narratives require looking at a long


stretch of history and development which


people tend to forget and take more


effort to piece together embracing


pessimism is easy but don't choose an


easy path Embrace optimism number 18


wealth lesson be okay with knowing we


don't know I have not met an investor


who genuinely thinks Market forecasts as


a whole are accurate or useful but


there's still tremendous demand for


forecast in both media and from


financial advisors why does this happen


it's because we all want the complicated


world that we live in to make sense and


forecasts are stories that help to fill


that blind spot psychologist Philip


tedlock once wrote we need to believe we


live in a predictable controllable world


so we turn to authoritative sounding


people who promise to satisfy that need


but we must be careful we must come to


terms with accepting that we really


don't know no one really knows the


future this also means accepting much of


what happens in the world is out of our


control this could be a hard pill to


swallow but the sooner we accept it


sooner we can make financial decisions


that can leverage this fact why hold a


lot of cash because we don't know what


calamity is right around the corner why


live way below our means because we


don't know what could happen to our


income tomorrow why invest in a broad


market index fund because we have no


control over a single individual company


or even a group of companies follow the


market don't try to beat it sooner we


accept the fact that there is more we


don't know than we know sooner we can


make financially smart decisions thank


you guys for watching and this Spirit of


making smart decisions if you'd like to


learn 12 of my favorite non-money books


that changed my life please check out my


video here until next time all the best


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